Create a yahoo account to receive sensitive email about FLR.Delegate chores/responsibilities to him and create a way I can know when they are done so I can check.Teach him how I want him to respond to me.Make a plan for his short-term service of my body.Plan what I want from him on a daily basis.Keep his cards until you create a budget and spending plan.I want the ceremony to include him kneeling in front of me.Give him a verbal outline while we have breakfast.I can clear this from my list easily by delegating.Create a ceremony where he formally acknowledges my leadership and symbolically hands control to me.Close out his bad habits – specifically internet porn and masturbation.He will buy net nanny, (due next Sunday).He will look into a chastity device and show me, (due next Sunday).Until I finish my plan I want him to ask me each night at 9 if I want pampering.I am reaching out to see if I can find someone I can trust to help mentor and train.I will keep his cards until I create a budget and spending plan.He will call me anytime he is going to spend more than $10 except for gasoline.Collect his credit cards and give him cash for the next week.Getting financial accounts and documents, (due next Sunday).Delegating ceremony – draft due in 2 days.Set-up an early morning breakfast meeting for tomorrow with my man (Sunday).For this entire week I want him once each day to kneel in front of me and ask me to be his leader.Have him cook and serve a simple dinner, (salad and chicken).Have him get naked and shower at 6 in preparation and dress in an apron.Have him present me with a list of things from which I can choose.Tonight I want the full pampering treatment.Today he will clean the garage and present his work for inspection.Tell him to go to the bank today and get some cash ($100) for his lunches and gas.The lower 4 items are hardest to do so they will take time. The most important thing for today is to keep him motivated and least important (yet ultimately more important) is creating a map to our relationship closest to our measurable ideals. In the task list below you can see I have delegated many things and I am thinking about finding another women to help me with the initial phase where I am weak or don’t have time. The day is Saturday and Friday night you completed your relationship agreement together. Think of this as a first list as a leader. Your agreement gives you full control of the 5 food groups and you agreed to moderate kink and some forms of punishment. ![]() You are in a level 3 relationship and have your agreement in place. Let’s say you decide your top ten list looks like the list below and your priorities are clear. ![]() You can use technology, make him create the curriculums while you just reorganize it, or you can seek help from a friend or expert (consultant). What you delegated should have been on your “top ten” list and ranked as important. When you delegate, you still have to supervise the one you delegated to and you cannot let it go on its own. ![]() When faced with lots to do and a sense of weakness, think of delegation. I feel weak about training him to do anything At the end of this article there are 3 additional articles for more advice on reshaping self-image, non-punishment correction, and alternatives to physical punishment. In level 1-2 relationships you are not going to be doing much of any training, but in level 3-4, it will be expected. There is, however, the added complication of keeping both of you motivated. Delegate where you can and just maintain a list of the ones that don’t get done. In management 101, when faced with a large number of tasks you must prioritize them, take the top ten and do as many as you can. Because of the difference and size of the task at hand you must choose your targets. ![]() He want to learn how to serve your body, obey your commands, please you sexually, humble himself and learn what it is like to surrender. You want him to learn to overcome his bad habits, work independently, find fulfillment in growing, gain confidence in your leadership and participate as your supportive follower. Generally what you want your man to learn in your female led relationship and what he wants to learn are very different. If you have no female led relationship agreement or relationship strategy you are not ready for training unless you just want to play. If you have not yet read “A woman’s guide to motivating a man in her Female Led Relationship” we recommend you do so. You can get some from your list of relationship ideals such as fidelity and intimacy or some from your life direction goals and his cry for help. In order to train you will need to establish the things you want him to learn. Training your man to adapt to your female led relationship
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